The rise of micro weddings: Why couples are saying "I do" to smaller celebrations

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For generations, weddings have been synonymous with grand ballrooms, hundreds of guests and elaborate receptions. But in recent years, more couples are choosing a different path: the micro wedding.

What began as a necessity during the COVID-19 pandemic, when restrictions forced couples to scale back, has evolved into a lasting shift in how people approach their big day.

“COVID made it socially acceptable to have smaller weddings,” said Rayven Crisafulli, instructor in the University of Florida’s Department of Tourism, Hospitality and Event Management, who has planned and coordinated weddings across North Florida. “Before the pandemic, many couples felt pressure to host large, traditional celebrations with all the ‘essentials.’ Now, couples are realizing they don’t need 150 guests and a ballroom for their wedding to feel meaningful.”

Rising vendor costs are also fueling the trend. The Knot reports the average U.S. wedding costs around $33,000, but according to Crisafulli many full-service weddings in Florida can run from $60,000 to well over $100,000. With micro weddings, generally under 40 guests, couples can reduce expenses while still creating memorable experiences.

“A smaller guest list allows the design budget to go further,” Crisafulli said. “Couples can splurge on lush florals, curated menus or unique venues without the overwhelm and cost of a full-scale weekend event.”

Vendors are adapting too, offering scaled-down packages for photography, catering and planning to meet the demand. For couples, the shift is less about cutting corners and more about reclaiming the day’s meaning.

“The most powerful weddings are the ones that move the couple and their guests, not the ones with the longest vendor list,” Crisafulli said.